First Comes Love, part 3

I like to figure things out, and if given even an teensy bit of info I can easily solve a mystery. Ryan may not have known this about me at this point, but he did a pretty good job of throwing me off when it came to giving me my ring.

I was anxious to get that band of gold and diamond on my finger. I was ready to stick out my hand at any moment! But every weekend Ryan kept me waiting. We hadn't even set a date yet and I was waiting to be 'official' before we did (but that didn't stop me from ordering my dress!). It didn't take me too long before I figured out that he was waiting for my birthday to give me my ring. Ryan was going to take me to San Fransisco for the day, and I knew, just knew!, that he was going to give it to me then. I was absolutely, almost, certain.

So I waited.

I waited in the house when he came to pick me up. But he had to use the restroom first before we quickly left. That's ok, I'd rather have him give it to me when we're in the city anyway.

I waited as we sat on a blanket in Golden Gate Park and had our picnic lunch. That would have been a nice place. It would have been a great setting for a momentous occasion.

But still no ring.

I waited in the car as we parked outside the San Fransisco Zoo. I thought 'Ok, the zoo is......well, nice. I can imagine Ryan producing a little box when we sit by the monkeys cage. That can work.'. But before we got out of the car to go inside the zoo, Ryan gave me a present! It was a large present (large when one is expecting a small package containing a ring, that is). But it was a teddy bear. With no ring. It was just another birthday gift. And again, no ring graced my hand as we returned to the car after the zoo either! *hmph!*

And still I waited as we walked in and out of shops on Pier 39. Wouldn't an official proposal at the end of the pier make for a romantic story? Well, it didn't happen there either. And it had started to rain and our day was winding down, so we decided to head home.

By this point I was very much disappointed and inwardly embarrassed. We were driving back home and all I could think of was how I had told everyone, my family, friends, co-workers, that I was getting my ring that weekend. The next day was Monday and I dreaded going to work with a naked finger. But as we drove home, Ryan said something about renting a movie or doing something else when we got back into town. And a little light of knowingness began to glow, deep down inside me. I knew Ryan's plans for the day were not yet over. Hope was born! My ring was coming!!!!

As we pulled into town and Ryan took me to my parents house, after we picked up a movie to watch, I went inside to my waiting parents. Thankfully no one jumped up to ask about a ring or details of the day, and as Ryan got settled I quietly talked with my mom and sadly told her that I did not get my ring (there was still a small part of me that was not convinced I was getting it that night, so I truly was embarrassed and sad to tell her). The night was coming to a close and so my parents said goodnight and went to bed. But Ryan and I still had our movie to watch.

As we settled in for the movie, Ryan gave me a card. Another birthday card. This one had a black and white picture of two kids dressed up as adults (which were quite popular those days). The little boy was standing in front of the little girl and was holding a bunch of red roses out to her. On the inside of the card was Ryan's written words of adoration and declaration of love..........and his official request for marriage. Of course I had tears in my eyes at this point, and as I closed the card I told him 'yes'. Then!, finally!, after all this time!!!, he brought out the little band of gold and diamond I'd been waiting for all day, and he slipped it on my finger. Ryan had secretly hid the ring in the bathroom when he had picked me up earlier that day, and the entire day had been planned to string me along (the stinker!).



So I went to work the next day with such a story to tell! But I didn't wear my ring. I wanted to show my mother first, and she had left before I got up that morning (hey, it was a late night so I had slept in, ok?!). But as soon as my shift was over, I raced home, put on my ring and drove to my mothers work to show her!

Soon after, we set a date. And I just had this feeling that July 13th was going to be a great day.

We Interupt the Regular Scheduled Posting for This Very Important Announcement.....

~~~ Isabel has been moved to a big girl bed ~~~

*sigh* I knew this day was coming, but I was in denial. We didn't wake up yesterday with the purpose to move Isabel. It just kind of, well, happened.

The day began just like any other typical Saturday in our house. We went to Costco and loaded up on necessities (and samples, and lunch). Then the kids and bikes were hauled to the park. And while Ryan and I sat and watched the kids, we decided that it was time to cut the cord and swap out the crib for the toddler bed.

before


We've put off this move long enough. So it was time. I'm still not looking forward to dealing with the change it will bring....putting Isabel to bed countless times a night as well as finding out exactly how early she gets up in the morning.

after


Contrary to how I've been feeling, Isabel is so very ready. She was excited about her new bed and the new arrangement in her shared room with Mae. Isabel even placed a few of her things just so around her bed, so she's certainly put her stamp of ownership on the room.

I tried not to think about this momentous occasion in my home as I tucked her in and read her a story. I tried not to think about the crib and how it has been a part of our daily life for seven years and how strange that it is no longer there and never needed again. I tried not to think of my little girl, my baby!, in her big girl bed with a big grin. And I tried not to cry.

But I keep telling myself that although the crib is in pieces in the garage, it can still be put back together! (right???)

***this has been a message from the Emergency Blogcast System. Regular scheduled posting will resume tomorrow. (beeeeeeeeeep!)

First Comes Love, part 2

Ryan and I dated for a total of 2 1/2 years before getting married. Not long for a couple of youngin's. For about the first half of that time we continued to work together. Our manager knew of our relationship and allowed us to continue to work together even though it was against store policy. Little did he know of a few rendezvous in the walk-in freezer. I'm not sure, but the frozen chicken stars may have covered their little eyes a few times when we shared a couple of kisses. (insert embarrassed blushing here) But within that first year the owners found out that we were dating and I was transferred to another restaurant.

When not working together, we spent our time going to movies and plays, and day trips to San Fransisco, Yosemite or Lake Pincrest. We had picnics, hiked trails and took our bikes and rode the paths. For his birthday that first year, I took Ryan on a dinner cruise on the Sacramento delta. Don't be overly impressed, it didn't end up being the grand excursion I thought it would be, but it was an experience we shared. And on my birthday, Ryan took me to San Fransisco to see Phantom of the Opera (he knew it was my favorite). Yeah, that blows away the previous birthday adventure.

By the end of our first year together, Ryan had transferred to San Jose State University with Car Design as his career goal. He continued to live in town, but was traveling back and forth, an hour and a half each way, during the week for his classes and new job. And I quickly missed our mid-week evening times together....like when he'd be outside my class when I finished, or when I'd spot him there before I got out and I would smile or sometimes he made me laugh (which is generally not appreciated by college teachers and they'd shut the door). So by the end of that spring semester he was ready to move to the university and go full time, and the fall of '95 marked his official move away.

As we both prepared for his move to San Jose, we were looking at our relationship. By this time we had been dating for a year and a half and breaking up was not an option either one of us considered. And the next logical step for us seemed to be marriage. So before Ryan moved, we were unofficially engaged. The next big step was for Ryan to talk to my parents (dun dun dun!), which he did, and they gave their consent (thanks Dad, thanks Mom!). And a summer wedding of the next year was in the works as I cried my eyes out as Ryan's little white Honda Civic took my betrothed an hour and a half away from me.

The fall of '95 was an exciting time. My lifelong dream was within reach as I planned for our wedding. Ryan was now gone all week at college and super, super busy with his major, but still made time EVERY WEEKEND (save one) of that entire school year to come back to see me. We shopped for my ring, and bought one. Then I waited for him to give it to me. Yes, he made me wait (the stinker!).

First Comes Love, part 1

I met Ryan when I wasn't quite out of high school. He had graduated the year before me and was already in the college group at church when I went to an audition for a musical that the group was putting on that summer. This was my first interaction with the college group (even though I knew most of the people since they had been through the high school ministry in previous years). I went and, as expected, recognized most of the people auditioning, but there were a handful of others that I did not know. Ryan was among the unknowns. My first thought when I saw him was something like 'I'm gonna like this college group!' (how shallow was I?! -don't answer that.). And he did not disappoint! But it wasn't until later in the tour of the musical that we actually met and began to get to know each other.

Through the course of the tour of the musical in LA that summer, we started to hang out with the same people. Although I had an attraction for him, it was not mutual. We were becoming good acquaintances, but that was it. (hello, future wife here!!!) Not only did I think Ryan was easy on the eyes, but I was also attracted to his love for God and his desire to live for Him. It helped, too, that he made me laugh!

As the summer was winding down and we all began to focus on the start of college classes, a new home bible study was starting up, and Ryan was the leader. He was also looking for people to join in with him. Ryan asked many people in our mutual group, including myself. Seeing how I didn't belong to one yet, it only made sense to join. But at this point I was also sensing no return in my attraction for him, so I began to let the idea of us go. So I joined the home group and enjoyed the new friend I had made. And that was it, until later that winter....

When I started attending the local community college I also had the mission to get a job. Being the picky person that I am, I was getting nowhere. A few interviews, but no call backs or offers. Fast food was not at the top of the list for possible future employers. In fact, it wasn't even on the list! But after much discussion with anxious parents for me to get a job!, I finally turned to Ryan for help. You see, Ryan was a shift manager at a nearby Carl's Jr. Again, never on my list. He had offered to help me get an interview, and after one of those discussions with my parents, I finally asked for an application. Low and behold, they were hiring and offered me a job. And so began our working relationship.

It didn't take long either. We didn't work together all the time, but when we did we were able to talk more. That's when he was overcome with admiration and love for me...... Ok, so he finally broke down and asked me out.

After working with Ryan for a little bit, I was no longer able to push aside my attraction. We were talking more and I just couldn't help but enjoy it! I wondered if I was becoming too obvious or if our coworkers or lead manager were thinking we were talking too much or getting too close. I remember sitting in the break room one day and Ryan was looking at the schedule for the week when he asked me if we could get together. Being the guilt ridden person that I was, I thought he wanted to talk about our working relationship and define some boundaries or say that we needed to back off or something (mind you, we had never expressed any feelings for each other, we were just getting started!). So I had no idea that he was asking me out on a date! But I agreed to get together that following Saturday.

The days leading up to that date were nerve wracking! I vacillated between fear and excitement. However, my friends finally convinced me that the meeting was not, in his mind, a time to talk about how we were working together. And they were right.

Ryan picked me up in time for lunch and we went to a nearby grocery store and bought deli sandwiches and walked over to a little man-made lake. We ate while sitting on the dock, and just talked and enjoyed our leisurely time together. Afterward, we decided to go to a movie, Mrs. Doubtfire (not a movie I would recommend today, but it was better than the other options). On our way to the theater we were seen by a coworker. Talk around the employees were sure to fly now. What were we doing anyway? Why were we together? Well, as we continued to the theater, we talked about it. We were on our first date. Yes, we were dating (insert inward glee here!). And I was able to answer those questions with confidence (albeit with a little blushing!) later that night when I went in for my next shift.

So, as of January 9, 1994 Ryan and I were together.

New-ish Toy!

Yesterday my neighbor down the street told me that she had a bunch of stuff ready for the Salvation Army and did I want poke through the books and things before they came? Um, YEAH!

So we went over after school and I pulled out several books. Plus she had some clothes that might fit Mae along with a Light Bright! Well, all the clothes fit Mae (horray again for hand me downs!) and the kids are loving the Light Bright.

The best thing about the Light Bright is that it's a newer model than what was out when I was a kid. It's a Light Bright Cube, which means that two, and possibly four, kids can play with it at once. That is if all the kids can crowd around the cube, poke in their pegs AND still get along. But I suppose that's a battle for another day. As for today, Mae and Caleb had fun breaking in their new-to-them toy!

I'm thinking that hand-me-down toys are pretty cool too!

What I Wanna Be

On the way to school this morning, Caleb told me that he was thinking of what he wants to be when he grows up. Here is our conversation;

Me: Oh yeah buddy, what do you want to be?

Caleb: Either a cowboy or a police man.

Me: And what do cowboys do?

Caleb: They ride horses and rescue animals with their rope.

Me: And what does a police man do?

Caleb: They rescue people and give tickets to people who are driving.

I love his perspective! It's fun to get a peek into how he thinks of the world around him. I wonder what he'd say if I asked him what a mom does?! Maybe I'll do an update later today when he gets home from school.

Family

I remember a little poem or saying from my high school drama class. The teacher used it to help us enunciate our words and speak more clearly. Today I am taking that poem and putting my own spin on it. So it goes something like this.....

Whether the weather be cold.

Whether the weather be hot.

We'll be together

whatever the weather

whether we like it

or not.

Nothing

That's right. I've got nothing to say today. Not really. I had a lazy kind of day today. I should have at least gone to the store to do a little grocery shopping for the week. But I didn't. Instead I took it slow around the house and played a few Tetris games on Facebook (ok, so it was more like a lot). But I did beat a record I was shooting for! How's that for productivity?!

I also forgot to get the mail today. I was thinking ahead to tomorrow when the kids don't have school because of Veteran's Day and I mistakenly thought the mail didn't run today. I was wrong. That will happen tomorrow. But I did set the garbage out for the regular Tuesday pick up! However, I realized afterwards that the garbage pick up will be delayed for one day because the holiday. Well, I didn't get the mail but at least we won't have an overflowing gargabe for the next week! I'm sure my neighbors are thankful to be looking at our garbage can for an extra day. Oh well.

See? I told you I didn't have much of anything to say today. Maybe tomorrow will be a more insightful day. But at least I have my post in for the day!

A Perfect Day

Today is a lovely, dreary, rainy day. And I am so thankful. The weather here has been warm for way too long. When I have been craving chilly days with cozy sweaters I have been donning t-shirts and capris. Now I love capris and sandals but it time to break out the cool weather wardrobe! And today is the day!

I love rainy days. In fact, when I was a teenager, I would pray for days leading up to my birthday that it would be a dreary rainy day. I don't recall it raining too much on that day, but then I moved to Portland. It rained a lot there, though not as much as I thought it would. I think after moving there I must have stopped praying for rainy birthdays. I can't remember the last time I asked for a rainy birthday.

But here I am today in a thankful mood over rain. Do you know what makes a rainy day even more perfect???....a nice cozy nap. And yes, I was able to partake in that as well on this very fine day. I breathe a contented sigh as I feel that all is right in my world, now that I've had a delicious nap under rainy skies.

I Knew I Was In Trouble Before It Was Finished

Since we no longer have our handy dandy school buses to help us out this year, my neighbor and I have worked out a carpool swap. It only makes sense to do this, since we both have kids there and need to take them to and from school. Besides, it saves us on gas!

So yesterday was my afternoon to pick up her kids after school and take them home. We all really like Katie and Ryan. Isabel adores Katie and likes to try to talk to Ryan who sits behind her in the truck. And sometimes Katie has mad libs and we fill in the blanks on the way home.

Then there was yesterday....Ryan had a joke to tell Mae. As it began, I had this sinking feeling inside. A feeling that was foretelling that I'd hear it over and over and over again for a long long time to come. You'll see.....the joke goes like this...

Pete and Repete were in a boat. Pete falls out. Who's left?

Mae didn't get it. She kept answering the question, and Ryan kept retelling the joke. Now Katie and Ryan are home and probably on to other after school activities. But me? Well, I'm still listening to the kids and the new joke they learned.

Thanks Ryan.

Friday Tradition

When I was growing up, my family always had pizza on Friday nights. It was our way of splurging I suppose. Our way of having something fun together. Well, now that I'm all grown up with a family of my own, I want to keep this weekly tradition.

When Ryan and I were first married I was intent on keeping the tradition the way it was, pizza every Friday. But Ryan needs variation in his life or he gets bored. So we kept the Friday night tradition but decided to branch out and eat at different places other than pizza joints.

Today, the big question when Ryan comes through the door on Friday after work is "where should we go for dinner?". Sometimes one of us or the kids has a place in mind, and other times we can't agree so the decision falls to one person. Many a Friday night we can be found at places like Rubios, Panera, Taco Bell, and sometimes at a local pizzeria (gasp!).

October Movie Review

It's that time of the month again! Noooo, not that! It's movie review time! Here's what we saw using Blockbuster Online;

1. Jumper - this movie is a classic example of something that I would not pay to see at the theater but somewhat enjoyed at home. It's a sci-fi adventure about a guy who discovers that he can jump, or teleport, anywhere he wants to go. He uses his 'talent' to rob banks and travel to all places around the world. Of course there is a group that doesn't like 'jumpers' and takes it upon themselves to eliminate them. The storyline is predictable from there. But it was entertaining and somewhat original, I will admit. The main character was played by Hayden Christensen (the guy who played Anakin in the last two movies, or was that #2 and #3? anyway) and he wasn't much better in this movie either. He was better than in the Star Wars movies but not by a whole lot. Anyway, I'd reccommend this one if you're into sci-fi movies and would like to see something somewhat new. (but I will warn you that we did skip through at least one bedroom scene...just an fyi, if you care about those things).

2. 21 - Ok, now this one fascinated me! Let me back up a bit and explain. First of all, the movie touts that it is 'based on a true story' of a group of students and a teacher from MIT who take their intellect and use it to their advantage in Vegas by counting cards. After doing a little reading on the world wide web, turns out that the tag line should read more like this 'factual accounts based on fiction'. Needles to say, there's more fiction than fact going on here. But that isn't what got me thinking. I was totally into the story as a mirror of human struggle between doing the right thing (aka obedience to Christ) and how Satan gently lures us in with innocence and 'safety'. I would be interested in hearing someone elses opinion if they've seen it. Other than that, the movie was ok, predictable but entertaining.

3. The Spiderwick Chronicles - Ryan and I watched this on Halloween, not on purpose, but it seemed appropriate. At first I thought I was going to regret watching it, thinking it was going to be too juvenile. But it wasn't, not too bad anyway. So, the story is about three siblings that move to an old family house that no one has lived in for 80 years or so. They happen upon a secret book that reveals the hidden life of mystical beings around them. Now that they've uncovered the book, there is an evil ogre that desires the book and its secrets for himself (and rule the world....mwahahahaha). The kids must protect the book while they find a way to destroy it. I found it highly entertaining and it kept my attention the entire time (although the ending of the ogre storyline was a bit anti-climatic). It's about time there's a movie out there that has entertainment without gore and s3x! I'll let my kids watch it in a couple years when they won't be super-freaked out by the goblins and the havoc they create.

So, we didn't see a terrible amount of movies this month, as you can see. It's hard to find movies that aren't full of, ahem, crap. I get tired of seeing people with loose morals and filthy mouths. I wonder how much longer we will keep our account with Blockbuster Online. If you can recommend anything that you find entertaining with out the filth, please let me know and I'll add it to our queue.

I Wish!

If I click my heels together three times do you think I can get me a pair of these???



I came across them while traversing blog-land last week. I'm not one who wears heels much, if ever these days (seeing how I'm only an inch shorter than Ryan), but I can wear them when not in his presence...right?? *sigh* I may scarcely wear a pair of heels, but there is something about a Mary Jane style shoe that gets my attention. And these lovely ladies are practically calling my name. I can envision myself wearing them with jeans or with a pretty dress. I can make them work for every day or for a nice evening out. I just know I can! Too bad they cost $150 big ones.

One thing that puzzles me about these beauties is that they are made by Crocs in a new line they call YOU (at least I assume it's a new line). But since they are made by Crocs, it makes me think that these shoes are probably very comfortable, which is pretty much an oxymoron when it comes to heels. I think I should try them out and let you know. Do you think Crocs will pass me a pair so I can do a product review??? Wish they would.

Just in case.....Dear Crocs, I wear a size 7, please email me for my address info. thanks!

Election Day

I'm not much of a political person. I don't follow the daily digs and speeches. And I'm certainly not one for debating the topics with others. I just don't care for it. But as much as I don't like it, I can't escape the fact that I need to vote. And so I do.

There are many things to consider with this election though. The candidates and all that they stand for and represent, as well as the other emotionally charged propositions. But these things are not so much on my mind today. For one thing, I voted a couple weeks ago, but mostly because I know that the Lord already knows who will win and what will or will not pass. How do I know this? Because He's God!

Romans 13, verse 1 says "for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God." So God knows who's going to win because He has already put them in place according to His plan and purposes. It may not be the one that I think best for our country, so I remind myself that that the Lord has said "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways" (Isaiah 55:8) I am not sure of what the Lord has planned, and so I rest in the fact that He knows what he's doing - because He is holy, and perfect, and no plan of His has ever failed! (and that's a track record I can stand behind!)

In conclusion, I am not overly concerned about today's results. I have done what I can, I've voted, now I can only continue to pray for my country and state and stand firm in the knowledge that the Lord is in control of all.

Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but (I) trust in the name of the LORD (my) God.
Pslam 20:7

Monster Winner

This is the picture that Mae drew and colored, and what started the whole challenge. What do you think of Mae's yellow fuzzy headed, googly eyed, striped shirt with a heart and red arms and legged monster with a bow and roller skates??! (whom she also named Koco Nut! hahaha)



We had several people enter Mae's Monster Challenge, and Mae and I had fun looking at everyone's interpretation of the monster. Everyone did a great job! Mae and I say a great big THANK YOU to those who entered!

Of course there can only be one winner of the bag o' candy corn. Mae was very diligent in writing down the names of each person who entered on little slips of paper, she even numbered them! Then she put them in a hat, and I shook them up real real good, then she pulled out one name. And the winner is....

Sarah! And here is her picture!


Didn't Sarah do a great job?! Mae and I loved how she cut out the paper and added a fuzzy ball for the head, and of course the googly eyes are the best!!!

33

Yep, it's my birthday.

All. day.

Actually, I like to think of it as my birthday month! Too bad no one else sees it that way. Bummer! Oh well. I will be thankful for the day I have and how my family and friends make me feel special.....and how one fabulous friend is watching Isabel tonight so that Ryan and I can go out to dinner (MaeLeb will be a Awana so they are already cared for!). So here's to another year of life completed on this earth....and the Lord willing, many more!

NaBloPoMo

What is NaBloPoMo anyway?

Glad you asked!

NaBloPoMo is National Blog Posting Month, silly! What did you think it was? All I have to do is post on my blog each day for the month of November. That shouldn't be too difficult, should it? I think I'm up for the challenge this time around. Last year I had thought about participating, but I knew I'd be gone over Thanksgiving and I didn't want to add that pressure on myself. But now I have a secret weapon. It's called auto-posting! *shhh, don't tell* At this point I have no auto postings up my sleeve, but if I have a sudden burst of bloggy inspiration then I can use that handy little option. If not (which most days will be the case, I'm sure) then my blog fan(s) will be subject to daily drivel as I scrape together a post for the day.

However, you are more than welcome to help me with my blog posts. The other month, when I hit my blogoversary, I asked my adoring fan(s) to ask me questions which I answered the next day in my following post. So, here's another chance to ask me any question you'd like (but please keep it clean, any offensive questions or remarks will be deleted.) And if (ahem, when) I get writers block then I'll pull out a question or two. How's that for keeping things exciting around here?!

So, today's the big day! My first post for November!!! It's not too late, go to NaBloPoMo and join in! Not bad for right out of the gate, eh?

Challenge Extension

We've decided to extend Mae's Monster Challenge for one more day. There is at least one family that is trying to get their monster drawn and entered, and since no one else has entered I thought that maybe if it was extended then maybe, just maybe someone else would enter too.

So, if you're still wanting to enter your (or your childrens) monster picture then you have one more day! How generous are we?!

Last chance.....the challenge will end tomorrow morning 10 am. Email or sign the Mr. Linky and enter!

Mae's Monster Challenge

Mae has a fun story to share with you all today. It's a story about a monster that she drew, and she has a special, fun surprise too! After you read her story, can you draw a picture of Mae's monster?? There will be a totally random drawing for the winner (drawing ability will not be judged). The winner's picture will be posted here, along with Mae's original drawing, and will receive a bag of candy corn (the new favorite in our house!).

Here's the rules of our Monster Giveaway:

1. draw a picture of the monster from Mae's story
2. post a picture of your monster on your blog and link back to this post using the Mr. Linky

* if you don't have a blog then you can submit a picture for the drawing via email - fragile.flower@hotmail.com

3. one entry per person (but is open to any/all members of a family/blog).

4. the giveaway is open to US residents and will close on Thursday, October 30th at 10:00 pm pst. The winner of the random drawing will be posted on Friday, October 31st, along with the picture they submitted. Oh, and Mae's original drawing will be posted too!

Ok, enough rules and non-fun stuff. On to the story!!!

~ My Monster ~

There once was a monster with a bug fuzzy head. It was a yellow head with antennas and had googly eyes, stripes on its tummy with a heart too. Red arms and legs, and bow. It also has roller skates.

Flowers were being eaten. And it was heading for town.

"Oh my! Oh my! There is a monster heading this way!"

And the monster, she ran away. "I only want to make a friend" the monster said in a sad voice. "Maybe I should find someone else to make a friend." So she went off to the bay.

"Ahhhhh! There's a monster heading over here!" a man yelled. And the man ran off with his friend.

"But I only wanted to make a friend. Maybe I should find someone else?" So the monster went to the freeway.

"Ahhhhh! There's a monster on the freeway! Drive! Drive!" and the people on the freeway went the other way.

"But I only want to make a friend. Maybe I should go to the beach?" She told herself.

"Ahhhhh! There's a monster! She is making waves! Call the police! Call the police!" And the people on the beach did, and the monster was arrested.

"But I just want to make a friend!" the monster told them.

"Really? Really? Ok, come out!"

~ The End ~

Friday Five

1. Ryan came home for lunch, even though he'd already had lunch, just because he wanted to see me! I am loved.

2. I just finished a lunch-size bag of Cool Ranch Doritos for lunch. I can't help but remember that I had an usual craving for them when I was pregnant with Mae. You'd think that Mae would like them too since I ate so many of them, but she doesn't. Maybe I had too many?

3. When I pick up the kids from school today, we are going to buy some cheapy popsicles that the school sells on Fridays as a fundraiser. Fun to eat popsicles after a long week!

4. It really has been a long week. Lots of stuff going on here in our home. Hard stuff, but in the end its all good.

5. I have to leave to get the kids from school now. Bye, have a good weekend!

Hand-Me-Downs

I love them! It must be the frugal side of me that enjoys a big ol' sack of clothes for my kids. Not much else can bring such joy!

Recently, I went through Mae's drawers and weeded out the things she can't wear anymore. Then I pulled out a pile of hand-me-downs that a neighbor gave me last year for Mae, and pulled out the things that finally fit. After doing this, Mae only needed a couple more things to finish off her wardrobe for the winter.

I have a couple great big storage containers that I use to keep Mae's old clothes in. I pulled one out so I could put in the latest bunch of 'too small' clothes from Mae, and at the same time I pulled out things that finally fit Isabel. In doing this Isabel's winter wardrobe is also complete.

This brings me to Caleb. He has nothing. No fun box of hand-me-downs to go through. Nothing. This makes me kinda sad. It makes me wish I knew someone that had a boy just a tad older than Caleb so they could pass along some hand-me-downs. He should be grateful that he gets new things and hardy a stitch of 'gently used', but being a boy I think the joy of new clothes just dosen't translate the same as it does for girls.

But not being one to be only a taker and not a giver.....I have also been enjoying passing things along myself. Just the other week I was able to give a sack of little girl clothes to a friend. This gives me a spot of joy as I do not have to store clothes I can no longer use and take up valuable storage space, or the time it takes to list things on Craigslist (I'm not even a bit sad over the loss of a few bucks I could have gotten for them either!). You know....the Lord does love a cheerful giver!

If only I could find someone to pass along some things in, say, a womens size 8. But I'll settle for the clearance racks at Target!

Doing Something Right

Last night as I drove Mae and Caleb home from AWANA we were behind a minivan that had a built-in dvd player. We could see that they were watching a movie and we were trying to figure out which one was playing (I wanted to yell 'hey, turn it up, we can't hear!', but I didn't). Our vehicle does not have a integrated dvd player, instead we bought a portable one and set it up only when we do road trips. This way the kids aren't asking to watch videos all the time and neither are they watching them constantly.

With this in mind, Mae asks the question 'why are some parents fun and others not fun?'. I instantly knew, without asking, which category Ryan and I fall into in Mae's mind. I asked anyway and my hunch was confirmed.

We must be doing something right. Right?

Bed Time Woes

We're having issues again in our house. Mostly in the girls room at night. Well, now that I think about it, it's all coming from their room and Caleb is pretty much an innocent party (for once!).

Why so much trouble, you ask?

Well, my girls share a room. I could stop right there and enough would be said and understood. But I won't. For I feel a vent session coming on (feel free to stop reading at this point).

So, as I said, Mae and Isabel share a room. Mae has her own twin bed and Isabel is still in a crib. Mae plays and talks with Isabel at night when she should be getting to sleep, and Isabel is all too happy to oblige. Or is it the other way around? It matters not. Take a look at a typical nightly routine...

Night Mae. Night Isabel. Mom and Dad close the door after tucking in and prayers have taken place, then they try to unwind from the day and relax a bit before going to bed themselves. Mom and Dad hear noises and laughter or screaming coming from down the hall. Then a few minutes later Mae comes out to say that Isabel is bothering her. Mom and Dad try to remain calm (for this happens every night!) and tell her to leave Issy alone, ignore her and go to sleep. This repeats itself many times before the girls crash or Mae ends up sleeping in Mom and Dad's bed (which they then move her back to her own room when they hit the sack).

It's exhausting I tell ya! Most nights we are both so fed up with it that the first time Mae comes out she gets the full force of wrath before she gets to the end of the hall! I have come to realize something about myself....I am surprised that I don't breathe fire. Then there are also times that I wish I could! Nights like this one described come to mind.

Isabel should be transitioned to her toddler bed by now, but I can't get myself to do it. I can only imagine what bedtimes would be like if she were allowed to get up and out of bed whenever the whim hit her. For sure she'd get out and play with things and/or bother Mae. In bed would not a place she'd spend much of her pre-sleep moments when the lights are turned out.

*sigh* What to do, what to do.

Me So Pretty

I know that a few of you out there would like to see my new glasses, and frankly I'd like to show them off! So I sat down the other night and took many pictures of myself, which isn't easy to do. And I took a lot. I mean, A LOT!

Did I like any of them?

Well, the ones I did like had bad lighting or were not in good focus. And to be honest, after viewing many pictures of ones self it's easy to loose that 'I'm so pretty' feeling. But from the multitude I did choose one to show you. This one...



I know, I choose one with bad lighting. But it does show off the new glasses (and hair cut, and cozy sweater I'm so fond of but can't wear again for a bit because the weather heated up, again!).

So there you have it. New glasses.

YouTube Tuesday - I Feel Pretty

I got new glasses last week, and I like them! I also got my haircut, and I liking it too! Plus, the weather is changing and I can finally put on a nice cozy sweater. For all these reasons, and maybe a few others, is why I'm feeling good. But maybe a little more than good....pretty, oh so pretty!

Happy Birthday Ryan!!!

Hope you have a great day, my love! And when you get home.....your favorite dinner will be waiting....Southwestern White Chili and homemade cornbread!!

YouTube Tuesday - Human Tetris

I have a new little addiction.

It's called Tetris.

I discovered it while on Facebook.

Then I found this video on YouTube, and it seemed like such a perfect video to share with you all today. I can't help but let out a giggle or three when I hear the beat box (sort of) song that goes with it! If your a Tetris player too then you'll know what I mean!

You Likey?

One of these things is not like the other. One of these things does not belong.....

What's missing from this picture?...



I'll tell you what's missing.......a nifty towel for Isabel! Last year I got Caleb's shark towel and Mae's lady bug towel from my friend Wendy. Actually, I did a swap for Caleb's then bought the lady bug for Mae. But I'd much rather do a swap. Now you're probably wondering what I used to swap with. Well, let me tell ya!

Recently, I made these for Wendy...

(I made two of each card)

And she made this for Isabel...













Isabel is just so excited to have her very own pink shark towel. She put it on right away and even let me take pictures! She kept saying 'Bow's towel?!', 'Bow's pink shark!' and when showing it off to her siblings, she asks 'you likey?!'. I love that she loves it (I was afraid she wouldn't want to wear it, and I'm glad to be wrong!). Wendy did a fabulous job in making the towel and am so pleased with how it turned out! Thanks Wendy, you rock!

So what do you think?...you likey? Do you think Isabel likes it too?



**who knows....maybe if you ask, Wendy may make one for you too! (I think she accepts cash or swaps....go ask!)

Thursday Thirteen

Yesterday was a scorcher where I live. And not being a fan of heat, it was difficult for me to remain in a good mood. But I managed, for the Lord is good. Here are a few things that I am thankful for, regardless of the heat;

1. I made it to the weekly prayer meeting to pray for my kids in school! It's hard to get myself moving in the morning, and especially when I don't have to be somewhere. But once I get there and am praying with friends about our children, it's always worth it!

2. Isabel is talking a lot more these days and has much to say, and I am enjoying her cute little voice!

3. A friend had guest passes to the zoo and invited Isabel and I to join her after we were done praying. Although it was stinking hot, it was so very nice to get out and do something different and be with a good friend.

4. My friend bought us a nice cool pink lemonade to enjoy during our trek around the zoo. Soooo refreshing (thanks Debbie for the zoo and the cool drink!) :)

5. I love air conditioning!!! And I am never more grateful for it than when it's yucky-hot outside.

6. Ceiling fans. Our home has three of them, and it's great on hot days like these to help circulate the a/c even faster!

7. Cool showers. When we were newly married and living in a tiny (non-a/c apartment) I would take cold showers when the weather got really hot. It helps relieve the heat and cools me down quickly. Yesterday the cold shower helped alleviate the heat while I waited for the a/c to cool down the house.

8. A nice little nap after my shower was appreciated too.

9. I had a crock pot meal all ready for dinner, and I didn't have to put much effort into it!

10. Although it was a hot meal, it was still good!

11. Isabel has the best giggle ever, and I love to make her use it!

12. Twister is a great way to spend some fun time together as a family.

13. The weather man says it should be cooler tomorrow and even more cooler the day after that!

September Movie Review

We didn't see too many movies last month, but that's ok I suppose. Our weekends seem so easily taken up with good things, so I'm not complaining. But here's what we saw....

1. Penelope - this was a fanciful and fun movie about a girl, Penelope, who has a snout for nose. Penolpe's family had long ago fallen under a spell that would make the next born daughter become ugly. The only way to break the spell is have someone fall in love with her as she is. The main story line is predictable, but I enjoyed it none the less. I'd recommend it.

2. 50 First Dates - the only reason I am even mentioning this movie is to say that I do not recommend it. I am embarrassed to admit to having watched it at all, for it was offensive. I don't care for movies that has the level of s3xual humor that this one had as well as the use of a few choice words over and over and over again. Why did I continue to watch it, you ask? Good question. It was funny. I know, how shallow is that?! But there you have it, a s3xual, funny, offensive film where a couple sleep together and it is categorized as entertainment.

3. Baby Mama - again, not proud to have seen this one, let alone tell the world that I saw it all the way through. it was predictable and all the funny scenes were shown in the previews. I think it had potential to be a good, funny movie but was ruined by how it was done. I suppose I could go on as to how it could have been better....but I seriously don't want to bother, it's not worth it. So, no, I don't recommend this one.

4. A League of Their Own - I know, this movie came out like 20 years ago. But, I never saw it and I heard it was good, so I thought it was time to see it! And I liked it. I always enjoy real stories told on film. It's about the beginning of the ladies baseball league in 1943. Most men were off fighting the war and there was a need for people to watch some good old fashioned baseball! So the movie documents the first season of the All-American Girls' Professional Baseball League. Now this one I recommend!

Here's a news flash....I'd like some recommendations to put in our movie queue.....got any???

Noon-Time Meal

After picking Isabel up from school today, I ask her what she would like to eat. Here is our conversation;

Me: Isabel, what do you want for lunch?

Isabel: 'Ot Dog, no lunch.

Me: You want a hot dog for lunch?

Isabel: No lunch, 'ot dog!

Me: Ok, no lunch, I'll make you a hot dog. (sheesh, does she have to be so particular??!)

Later, after cooking the 'ot dog, I ask her yet another question in regards to her meal;

Me: Do you want the hot dog cut up or on a bun?

Isabel: (considering the question) Ahhhhh......bum.

Me: You want your hot dog on a bum?

Isabel: Yeah, bum.

Me: Ok, 'ot dog on a bum, comin' up!

West Meets East (sort of)

I've never had the chance to travel much, and the only time I've ever stepped outside of the boarders of this country was to Tijuana for a couple hours (and I don't really think that counts). Ryan has been to several countries including Brazil, Spain, Germany and England, all for business purposes. I thought that maybe I'd be able to go with him this past spring when he would typically go overseas for a research trip. I even got my passport just in case! But his company has cut backs on traveling. So no overseas trip for me. Bummer.

Since I've not traveled outside the US I have never experienced a culture other than my own. In fact, I'm so immersed in my own little world that it doesn't feel like I even have a culture. Until this past weekend.

When Ryan was in high school he made friends with a German exchange student, Gunner (pronounced Goon-nar). They ran track and spent much time together after school. After his friend returned to Germany, they lost contact. But a few months ago Gunner found him again and re-established their friendship. Turns out Gunner and his wife were going to take a vacation and would be in our area, would Ryan like to get together? Yes!

So this past weekend we welcomed Gunner and his wife, Anita for a night. And I am surprised at how much I enjoied it! I'm not much of an outgoing person and to be with people I don't know never gives me much excitment. But they were quite nice and easy to talk with. I think the most interesting part was seeing how similar we are and talking about how our lives are different.

They didn't want to do much during their visit with us. Rather, they were more interested in having an American experience. They had dinner with us and asked us what was being served (ie, what kind of cheese was in the salad - feta!, and what exactly a berry cobbler was). I found it humorous that they had wanted to buy some of the creamy ceasar dressing that was served with the salad. Also, if was funny that on Sunday when we took them to a tourist spot in town, they were tired of McDonalds and Burger King and wanted to eat 'someplace special, like Jack In the Box'!

It was interesting to hear their perspective on American life and also how America has been influential in their country. They told us that coffee shops are becoming popular as well as fast food. The interest that Germans have in fast food is not for convenience or lack of time to cook a real meal (like it is here in the US) but rather just because it is an American thing to do.

So after this weekend I have a little different perspective on my American way of life. I also desire to travel abroad more than I did before. Who knows....maybe Ryan will have to do more research in Germany? If so, then we would have to reciprocate a visit to some new friends! Wouldn't that be exciting?!

Spider-Card Swap

The Lord is so good! I just gotta tell you what He did for me!!!

Recently, I asked Caleb what he wanted to be for Halloween and he said he wants to be Spiderman. And being the cheap frugal mother that I am I went to Ebay to find a good deal. I know that a Spiderman costume can be had from Walmart for about $15, but you know me, I just don't want to pay that much.

The other day, as I was sitting in the dreaded dental chair, the hygenist asked me what my kids were going to be for Halloween. I told her of Caleb's desire and that I had been waiting for a good deal on Ebay. She has boys that are a little older than Caleb and offered the Spiderman costumes that they have (because they are too small). Plus, when asked, she said she did not want me to pay her for them.

How awesome is that??! A FREE costume!!! I didn't ask for it, but the Lord provided anyway. And during a time that we are pinching pennies around here, it couldn't have come at a better time!

But I still didn't feel right about taking something that cost me nothing, so I whipped up some cards for her. I hope she likes them!

So.......Caleb got this



and she got these!



Not a bad trade, don'tcha think?!

Thank you Lord for caring and providing, even in the silly unimportant things!

**stay tuned....another swap post coming soon!

Grace

-noun

1. favor or good will.

2. favor shown in granting a delay or temporary immunity.

3. mercy; clemency; pardon: an act of grace

4. a manifestation of favor, esp. by a superior: It was only by the Lord's grace that I received a good report from the dentist*.

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*yes, I re-wrote the example sentence to fit my own personal situation. But the truth remains...the Lord showed me grace today, and I found it in the dental chair. Praise God!!!

Caleb's Best Day

There you see it...



Now you don't!



As Caleb would put it, it was his best day ever! The day began with a little trip to an apple orchard and lunch in a quaint little town (that consequently has some fabulous apple pie!). As we were heading to lunch, Caleb made the discovery that he had a loose tooth, his first one. He let me wiggle it, and sure enough he had himself a loose tooth. And by the feel of it I thought it would be about a month before it came out.

I was wrong.

Caleb wiggled it all day. And I was amazed that by the end of the day it was quite a bit looser than when it was first discovered. In fact, I moved up the timeline from one month to the end of the weekend!

Later that night, before bedtime, Caleb was sitting in my lap as we watched a little tv. He let me wiggle it again and I had to change my prediction one more time. This time I told him it was ready to come out. He wanted to know why it wasn't out yet. Well, he'd have to pull it. That's why. But it hurt, he said. Only for a second, then it'd be over, I told him. Had he tried to twist it?, I asked. No, he said. Then he fiddled with it a little more, then sure enough in his hand was his tooth!!!

Caleb was so excited! He says it was the best day of his life. How can I argue? Loosing a tooth in one day is pretty exciting! I only hope he gets to sleep before the sun rises so I can do the tooth/treat swap!

Blogoversary Q & A

Yesterday was the two year anniversary for my blog, or in blog-world terms, blogoversary. I was out of time to think of a great way to celebrate, like I did last year, so instead I opened the floor for questions. A few passers by were entertained with the notion and gave it whirl. Here are some questions about myself that inquiring minds want to know;

Mary asks...

1. How did you meet your husband? Ryan and I met at church. I was just about to graduate high school, and the college group at church was going to be doing a choir tour of Cross and the Switchblade (Christian musical about the real-life story of David Wilkerson who was an evangelist to the street kids and gangs in New York back in the late 50's early 60's). So I went to the auditions at church and it was the first time I had any interaction with the college group. I saw Ryan, whom I had never met, and thought 'hmmm, I'm going to like the college group!'. Pretty shallow, I know, but what can I say, he's cute! During the course of the musical and tour we met and became friends. Later that Fall, Ryan started a home group bible study, which I joined. Then he helped me get a job at Carl's Jr., where he worked as shift manager. After working and spending more time together, we started dating. The rest, as we say, is history!

2. What is your favorite meal to make? If I have to cook, then one of favs is a recipe for Southwestern White Chili. Typically it's a cool weather meal so I haven't made it in a while. I do look forward to pulling it out and making it very soon! But the meal is not complete with out some Incredible Cornbread to go with it (super-good and super-easy!)!!!

3. Do you like fish tacos? I do now! I have typically been a picky eater, something leftover from childhood, I suppose. But now that I'm a full fledged grown-up, I've started to act like one and have tried many new things, like fish tacos, and found that, hey!, I like them and....I will eat them in a house, I will eat them with a mouse, I will eat them here or there, I will eat them anywhere!

4. How tall are you? I am a taller than your average female (I think) and stand at a full 5'7", which is just an inch or two shorter than Ryan so I can not wear any shoes with much of a heel.

5. Do you still love Knightrider? Mary....how dare you! Ok, it's out now (thanks to Mary and her superb memory) when I was a little girl I had a crush on Knightrider. Please notice the past tense of that sentence. Now that I am older, and hopefully more mature, I have outgrown my childish delights and am now Knightrider-free. Let it also be known that I have no desire whatsoever to watch the new show that is coming out this Fall. I have no idea why they would do such a thing anyway, weren't we afflicted enough with that show 20 years ago??

Cat wants to know...

6. What has been your favorite post so far & why? Oh gee, I don't know! That's a really good question. I've done many posts that I like, some funny, some thought provoking and even a few that are heartwarming. But as I think over them all this one sticks out to me the most. Back in February I had written about my desire for new friendships here and my need to step out and work on it. I had a great analogy about the flowers that were in my yard that I didn't know where there and that it was like having friends out there that I hadn't yet discovered. Maybe this post sticks out to me because I can see how the Lord has honored my stepping out and has blessed me with a few great friends since then. I truly am blessed and am so excited to enjoy friendship with these fablous ladies! God is good!

Michelle is begging the question...

7. What is your favorite color? RED

8. What outfit makes you so happy when you wear it? currently I like to sport my jean capris with a short sleeved white shirt (I have two white shirts, one is button down and the other is a pull over with a baby doll look and has little billowed sleeves) and I like to complete my ensamble with a silver necklace that has little red beads that dangle down. This outfit makes me happy!

8. Do you have any awesome dance moves? Um, none that the outside world will ever see.

9. What is your favorite artistic pursuit? up until now it has been making cards and using my stamping supplies to make 'em purdy, but lately I've been thinking of crossing over to beads and necklaces.

Lolly is itching to know....

10. What was your favorite movie from the 80's? Ah man why I can't think of anything??! Well, I've always enjoyed Popeye, but there's also The Little Mermaid. I was a freshman in high school when it came out and I saw it as many times as I could when it was released on video. But we taped Popeye off the tv when it was on, so I could watch it anytime I wanted. I don't know, I guess it's a toss up!

11. What dessert could you (almost) eat endlessly? Pie. Apple pie, my mother's pumpkin pie, cherry pie, oh and let's not forget lemon meringue!

Then Bethany is anxious to find out...

12. If you had a boat what would you name it? Floating Flower, of course!

13. If money was no object, what silly thing would you buy first? a fun pair of red shoes

14. From which store would you want a 10 minute shopping spree? Um, Target, hello?!

Thank you to those who were brave enough to ask a few little questions, and to those who just stopped by to congratulate me on my blogoversary! That was fun.....but now I'm totally out of post options. Hmph!

Happy Blogoversary to Me!

Today is the day. Two years ago this very day I began to grace the world wide web with my thoughts and daily happenings. I know you all are so grateful I did. I just know it. *big grin* It's been quite a ride, that's for sure. This blogging thing is so much bigger than I thought it was. Actually, when I started I didn't completely understand what a blog was. But two years later here I still am! And it's been fun!

I wasn't sure what I'd do for my blogoversary. Last year I did a picture tour of my life. This year, well, I didn't have any real thoughts or plans and now that it's here it's a little too late for fun things like a picture tour of anything (or even a list of 100 things about me). Too much is going on in life at the moment to give much thought to planning a nifty blogoversary event anyway. But I have seen a few people open their blog to their friends to ask them questions. Hmmmm.....I can do that! What do you think? Is there anything you'd like to ask me (with in reason and modesty?) If so, have at it! Leave me a question or two (or 10) and I'll do a post tomorrow answering them. How's that?!

Happy Blogoversary to me (and to you, my ever-faithful readers!)!!!

Back in My Groove!

Ahhhhh.....it feels so good to be back into a routine. Today was the start of the ladies bible study at my church, and I am feeling sooo good right now! I sat down at a table with other ladies I was with last year and I am looking forward to sharing the study of Moses with them for another year.

This year is a bit different, however. This time I do not have little ones to put in the childcare. This year, Mae and Caleb are in school and Isabel is in preschool. It's a first for me, not having to haul the kids in and out and rush to bible study in time. I do have to leave soon after the study ends each Tuesday in order to pick up Isabel from preschool, but I gladly welcome this change in my bible study routine.

I felt so blessed to be there this morning. And as I left I couldn't help but smile at the goodness of it all. So it is with a heart full of thankfullness and joy that I begin yet another study of God's Word with new and old friends.

God is good, all the time. All the time, God is good!

Another First

It was a week of firsts in our house this week. Isabel started her educational career. Well, if you consider preschool a part of that, that is (and I do!).

Isabel was so excited to go to school. The last two years she has been with me as we took Caleb to preschool and picked him up. It was a frequent struggle to get her out of the classroom after dropping Caleb off, but now it's her turn! She gets to stay and play, and learn, and sing songs, and go to the playground! Although, I must admit that I think she was more excited about having her own bucket than actually going to school.

Here are a few pics of my baby going off to school for the very first time.

standing outside the front door for the obligatory 'first day of school' pic

in the truck, on our way!

she got to put her little name on the door (it's how they do attendance, I think) but isn't it cute?!

Isabel and her school friends! (oh, and their cute buckets!)

Isn't Isabel cute with her little pig tails and big ol' bucket? *sigh* It makes me kinda sad....my baby is off to school!!! Although, I'm not sad enough to have another! In fact, having Isabel in school twice a week for a couple hours gives me a little free time. And this is term that I'm not too familar with. FREE TIME???

Oh yes, FREE TIME!!! My first morning 'off' I got together with another mom and we went to Starbucks and got a yummy (something that we didn't have to share with anyone or here whining while taking our sipping). Then we strolled through Target. Again, not something a stay at home mom is able to do too often. So, did I enjoy my FREE TIME....oh yes! I have a feeling that I'll enjoy this school year quite a bit!

Ewe!

I don't know why, but we have a nasty amount of flies in our house! As of Saturday there are many new tenants up,about, and around the house. I know I have a couple small holes in some of the window screens, but seriously the holes shouldn't be allowing in this many flies! That brings me to my next train of thought....did something hatch in the house to give way to so many?? (this is a totally gross thought and I don't really want to go in that direction, so I choose to blame the holes it the screens).

A friend and I were talking about this subject the other day and I come to find that my house is not the only one plagued with these flying nasties. She suggested that it may have something to do with the time of year, due to the fact that she remembered the same problem this time last year. Whatever the reason, enough is enough and I'm so over it!

I am now armed with my swatter and bug spray. Let the carnage commence.....operation Fly Bye is underway!

School Days

The kids have been in school for three weeks now and I feel that we are in full swing of the school year. The kids are thinking about which after school program they want to do, and I anticipate information to come home any day about school pictures. The only thing lacking is the crispness of Fall air.

This week is going to be a full one, I can tell already. Isabel will start preschool and I will begin helping in Mae's class. Which, by the way, I have a question........I'm not sure how to address my kids teachers. Do I call them by their 'teacher' name, Mrs. SoandSo or by their first name? Any suggestions or advice? I suppose for now I'll stick to the teacher name, but it makes me feel like I'm the one that's in school. I don't know!!!

I also have another question. The other day Caleb came home with a note to all the parents and it stated that there is a student (at least one) in the class that has a peanut allergy and that when bringing treats (birthday cupcakes etc) to class to not bring anything with peanuts. Also, it suggested to not even bring pbj's in their lunches. Now, I totally want to respect the allergy that other kids may have and in no way do I want to be the cause of an allergic episode, but I am at a loss as to what to pack for lunches as pbj's are such a staple. My kids don't care for lunch meat so I'm low on ideas for a replacement for the good ol' pbj. Any suggestions??

Well, as I mentioned, this is going to be a busy week and I still need to get a bucket for Isabel to bring to school (they use buckets instead of backpacks or bags). So I'm off to get my girl a bucket as I rack my brain for a cute way to decorate it.

Hope you, too, have a good week!

Helping

The other day, when I picked the kids up from school, I knew Mae had a good day. As she walked up to me she had a huge grin on her face. Then when we got in the truck she happily gave me a small sheet of paper. On that paper was a schedule of volunteering moms to help in the class for the year. My name was on it (as it should be, considering I signed myself up!). I am scheduled to help on Thursdays while Isabel is in preschool. Mae is so very excited! And I must admit that I am excited too! This is the first year that I am able to help in the kids class rooms and I'm looking forward to it. Maybe I'll even go on a field trip or two.

Carpet

Since being married, I have lived in 4 rentals. They have ranged from a teeny apartment to a full size house. In all places I have refused to invest anything into them, meaning I will not buy or replace fixtures or install anything that is permanent. I just won't do it, it's not my place so it doesn't make sense for me to put any money into it if I can't take it with me. However, in our current residence I have sort of broken, or bent, that rule.

The house we are renting is about twenty years old and the carpet isn't any younger. I can only imagine the numbers of families that have lived here and tracked who knows what all over the floors. Then there is our landlord who seems to keep a tight reign on his cash flow and will spend as little as possible whenever he can get away with it, so it's no surprise that the carpet is original to the house. And after two years of living here I couldn't take the nastiness of the carpet any longer so past weekend we rented one of those carpet cleaning machines from the grocery store and went to work on the heavy traffic areas in the house (when I say 'we' I really mean Ryan - and he did a great job!).

Overall, the carpet looks better and I am very pleased with how the carpet now looks. I don't mind one bit that we bent our rental rule, not one bitty bit. Now my only hope is that we won't be here when the carpet needs its next round of cleaning.....that bill belongs to the landlord.

Summer Movie Review

I say 'summer' because I didn't do a July review last month (did you notice?). It's been a busy summer, and between visitors, vacations and the Olympics we just haven't had time to watch any movies. We did watch one movie last month. Just one. That's it. August was not much different with three. So, here is what we saw this 'summer'.

1. Mr. & Mrs. Smith - I enjoyed this movie, although I couldn't get out of my mind that this movie was when Bragelina first worked together.....and we all know how that ended! But anyway, it was a fun movie that, in a fun way, made light of marriage and the little things that irritate each other and how it can be resolved (but hopefully most married folk aren't trained assassins with multiple hidden weapons about the house).

2. Vantage Point - Intriguing movie about the President being in Spain and shot during a speech event. It was interesting to see how the plot unfolded while seeing it through the eyes of four different people. I didn't expect it to end the way it did, but it was good. However, I must admit that the group behind the attack didn't go as deeply into the storyline as it should have.

3. Into the Woods - This was filmed during a stage production, and I had seen it back in high school. I liked it then, and like it now! It takes several characters/stories from a few different fairy tales and they all interact when going into the woods for some reason or another. That all happens in the first act, the second act deals with the consequences of the actions taken back in act one. Very humorous and clever. Love it, love it! If you like plays, musicals and wit then you'll like this too!

4. 27 Dresses - I hadn't wanted to see this when it came out. I thought the storyline was different than it really was. But I gave in after hearing it talked up by a few friends. It's still a typical romantic comedy with a little too much profanity and always a make-out-wake-up-the-next-day-because-they-slept-together scene that could be left out entirely and it still would have made a nice movie. But that's just me I suppose. So, if you're in the mood for a predictable, but admittedly funny, romantic comedy then this is for you. (the references about bridesmaids dresses and caring for a bride were not lost on me, that was most of the funny stuff right there!)

5. Bridge Over the River Kwai - This late '60's movie featured Alec Guiness (as in SIR Alec Guiness, you know....the original Obewan?!) I had been perusing the movie selctions and somehow stumbled across this movie. I thought it was a classic, at least it sounded like one, so in our queue it went. The movie, overall, was ok. I can see how it was liked, back in the day, but by today's standards it was a bit drawn out. I enjoyed the characater developement but wished that they didn't waste so much time with non essential scenes that, honestly, we sped past using our fast forward button!